My aunt is THE SHE DEVIL....

Garoshy · Post by **Garoshy** » Wed Apr 10, 2002 10:43 pm

Yes I speak the truth..
Oh I get so frustrated by that woman!! No that THING!!

She is so greedy, she could be the Sin of Greed's wife easly! Arrg.. let me just get my thoughts right before I start from the beginning...

There is this aunt I have, Ruth is her name. She is the larger sister of my mother Aud.
In short word Ruth and Aud don't get along so well..
Ruth never wisit Aud unless Ruth wants Aud to sign som importaint papers or if there is money in the picture.

Well anyway the story goes like this: My mother Aud want's to move into a house my grandmother Nelly owns, There was agreed that Aud would buy the house and acers around it, to a reasonal price. My aunt Ruth thought that it would be unfear that Aud should get the acers for free.
Ruth should have remembered that years back Ruth inherted several acers with land wich she sold... Aud got nothing!

Then the real troubles begin. Now Ruth wants a part of the acers my mother Aud is planning to have.. This pisses me OFF!!
-That's because: Ruth allready lives in a large house with a stable economy, so she doesn't need the land.
-for the second: She want's the acers for FREE! she begins telling that Nelly wants it and she should enhert it! And this is all lies!
- That Ruth tell us that my grandmother Nelly, wishes Ruth to inhert a part of the acers is even a BIGGER LIE!!!

Ruth never wants anything to do with my grandmother Nelly unless there is money in the picture.
Every christmas Ruth sends back all the christmas gift which my grandmother Nelly sends. Nelly gets hurt by this act.

The worst of all aunt Ruth doesn't realize how greedy she is! Or mabye she just hides that she knows..
When Aud rejected aunt Ruth, Ruth began trying to manipulate my mother Aud.
She accually goes into fases:
Fase One: Trying to smirk and being so nice as possibly
Fase Two: She gets angry, shouts, almost treatens Aud and tryes to give Aud the blaime.
Fase Three: Know she fake cries and tryes to make Aud feel guilty.
and then back to Fase One.

If this bitsh isn't a psyco then I don't know what's a phyco is..
Please come with some comments I feel really broken down... If something is unclear don't hesitate with ask me. I really want to talk about this.

Grendelwulf · Post by **Grendelwulf** » Wed Apr 10, 2002 10:57 pm

Wow, she sounds like a psycho bitch all right. I don't know what kind of advice I can give you other than maybe finalize your grandmother's will/inheritence so this whackjob will stop pestering her. And she can't really do anything about the land unless she brings a lawyer in (I think). Maybe I'm talking out of my ass (which is likely) but I'm just trying to help out.

DevilGirl · Post by **DevilGirl** » Wed Apr 10, 2002 10:59 pm

Man I'm sorry...

I get really pissed off with relatives too; so I hope some of my relative woes lets you know you're not alone...

Five years ago my husband's stepdad died of cancer. He was a really popular guy with our family, despite being your archetypical grumpy old man (the cancer did that) and was very sorely missed when he went. I sometimes find my husband still missing him dreadfully and whenever I go around to his mother's there's a seat I can't sit in (it was his)

Well my mother in law wasn't his first wife; and as a result there is four sisters (and their families) from his previous marriage. Now one of them is pretty okay now (she still comes to see my mother in law) but as soon as their father was buried they went to one part of the house after the wake and started discussing the will.

Not just that; they were actually discussing PROTESTING the will with lawyers and everything because all his money went to the spouse and they thought it was unfair because they weren't going to get any! Not like they bloody needed it!

Man I was all but ready to go kill them! My husband had to keep me in another room I was so pissed off!

Well they were soon asked to leave; and since then only one has eaten humble pie and stayed in touch with my mother in law.

I hate wills - and I hate greed, particularly against your own; there's always some bastard who wants to rip the best chunks out of you after you're dead

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Garoshy · Post by **Garoshy** » Wed Apr 10, 2002 11:25 pm

Well, I have simplyfied this story alot just so you guyes know that.

The problem with the will is:
My grandmother Nelly is afraid of aunt Ruth.
And Ruth will allways try to manipulate Nelly.

DevilGirl · Post by **DevilGirl** » Wed Apr 10, 2002 11:37 pm

What a bitch!

Whabang · Post by **Whabang** » Thu Apr 11, 2002 12:24 am

Try to get in her way, while still being over-nice (?). That is an easy way to piss people off.

No really, it works! Piss her off real good until she can't stand you in her sight. Good way to make people avoid you.

Kelgo Road · Post by **Kelgo Road** » Thu Apr 11, 2002 12:28 am

Well people like that are the only people I truly hate. I hold no value in the material and give anything I can spare to those that need it. Its people like that make me sometimes lose faith in my fellow humans.

Garoshy · Post by **Garoshy** » Thu Apr 11, 2002 1:05 am

On 2002-04-11 01:24, whabang wrote:
Try to get in her way, while still being over-nice (?). That is an easy way to piss people off.
No really, it works! Piss her off real good until she can't stand you in her sight. Good way to make people avoid you.

Hey that's a good idea! only that I havn't the slighted clue how I'm going to performe it...

You know what guyes? I'm tempted to pay David a large sum to make him make a stip about my aunt, just so I can see her burn in Hell!! Fine idea huh? well she fits in hell that's for sure...
Hey maby Vince would liked her.... hehe..

or Drip...

El SillY · Post by **El SillY** » Thu Apr 11, 2002 6:01 am

My family has the same problem, only it's with one of my Grandfathers (my mothers father) brothers, well most of the problems lies in his wife. I can't begin to tell you how much trouble there has been, but it's a lot, one the thing that really bothers me (my grandfather recently had a stroke, so he doesn't feel to well

) is that recently they have been playing all nice and friendly, the "Bury the Axe (hatchet?)" routine, but have they really changed? Big fucking no! They just try to cover it up by being nice... Bah.

-El SillY, my spell checker doesn't like swearing.

Garoshy · Post by **Garoshy** » Thu Apr 11, 2002 7:50 am

She has done it again that bitsh!!
Yesterday after my mother Aud told stricted that aunt Ruth would never get any acres,
well Ruth called Grandmother Nelly and complained. No she didn't only complain she scolded at Nelly!!
Scolding at her own mother!! How can Ruth do something like that? Poor Nelly, she is 80 years old!
Just minutes ago Grandmother Nelly rang my mother Aud with a shaking voice. Poor Nelly was in utter despair..

DeByrus · Post by **DeByrus** » Thu Apr 11, 2002 8:00 am

El SillY: bury the hatchet

Well, I don't remember who said it but its still a good quote:
"In a system of opportunities, there will always be someone who takes advantage."
Basically, it means that there are always going to be those who manipulate the system and those in it. And unfortunatly, sometimes they are our relatives. Trust me, I've got more than one. But I wouldn't reccomend pissing her off -- most likely you'll get into a war that will be difficult to get out of. My advise is to distance yourself from Ruth as much as possible. Yeah, I know it won't be that easy but its probably the best defense you've got.

Garoshy · Post by **Garoshy** » Fri Apr 12, 2002 2:02 am

Hey guyes!
It turned out good! thank God for that!
Well the fight isn't over but we have Grandma on our side atleast! Thank for your support friends! you all where a wonderfull support!

Ovalescent · Post by **Ovalescent** » Fri Apr 12, 2002 11:30 am

Bury the hatchet? Bury it where? Skull, chest, or back?

El SillY · Post by **El SillY** » Fri Apr 12, 2002 11:34 am

On 2002-04-12 12:30, Ovalescent wrote:
Bury the hatchet? Bury it where? Skull, chest, or back?

The wallet it seems

Troubled Youth · Post by **Troubled Youth** » Fri Apr 12, 2002 3:23 pm

On 2002-04-12 12:34, El SillY wrote:

The wallet it seems

I keep my wallet on my ASS!

Kendrakirai · Post by **Kendrakirai** » Fri Apr 12, 2002 8:42 pm

One way to get in the way while being super nice is to, for example, go into their house and clean up everything...throwing away any paper that's just left lying around.

'Oh I'm sorry, I didn't think you needed those papers anymore..they were just lying on the table. I didn't know they were checks that you hadn't cashed yet. I don't look at other people's things, that's just rude.'

And that's the thing. DON'T look at anything...it gives you deniability. You can honestly say you didn't see the bigass check for $15,000 on the table, or the winning lottery ticket, or the plans for world domination, whatever.

And don't forget to take everything to the dump or recycling center RIGHT after you're done cleaning, so if she really wants the papers back, she'll have to scrounge for hours, possibly in a garbage heap the size of Manhattan.

I have an evil mind. But some people simply deserve it.