really feeling down at the moment...

Cerberus · Post by **Cerberus** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 2:01 pm

about three months ago I met a girl. after introducing eachother we've been inseperatable. but since a week...well read for yourself.

my webpage

needed to get that out...and...since none seems to be visiting my page...I guessed I could put it up here...

Catlegend · Post by **Catlegend** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 2:16 pm

that fucking sucks!

That guy · Post by **That guy** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 2:47 pm

Lame-ass. Sorry, chum.

Kelll · Post by **Kelll** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 5:47 pm

Jeez O.o that was kinda harsh, but then, I'm not sure about her side of the storie, maybe she has a reason? *Optimistic!!*

Catlegend · Post by **Catlegend** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 6:03 pm

I don't think that's really looking on the bright side for cerberus.

Voyd · Post by **Voyd** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 10:58 pm

damn... thats... something's wrong.

awright, im not sure what6's going on, but one aspect is maybe she got into a relationship in the past that, well... screwed up and then after the train station she got freaked out about what she did.... but I'm not sure; that doesnt really explain it

on a different point, your layout kicks arse.

Winterkatze · Post by **Winterkatze** » Thu Jul 27, 2006 11:24 pm

I was once in a similar situation- a friend of mine, with whom I used to hang out a lot suddenly just stopped saying "hi" on the corridor. No small talk, no MSN, no answering to my SMS, no respose to my own greetings as well. Just treating me like air. It was really upsetting for me and no one would tell me what was going on; I fear it was for my sake.
After some time the situation... well, let's just say I got over it, as harsh as it may sound. Or even worse- I felt really hurt earlier, so I grew cold towards her. I stll miss the time when we used to be really good friends, but the fact is, I don't miss her quite as much.
In your situation, there seems to be a reason to this girl's actions. My advice is: act, confront her and try to salvage the relationship; stretching the confusing situation might prove disastrous. Try to approach the situation from different angles: maybe she is depressed, a close relative or friend passed away, stress, anything... Get her to talk about it.
I wish you best luck and I hope it all won't be as bad like you see it and also that you won't end up like me.

Neoflame · Post by **Neoflame** » Fri Jul 28, 2006 3:57 am

wow.....damn dude, i feel for ya. my advise(for wat its worth) if she says she needs space, give it to her, but let her know that u'll be there for her if she ever needs anything or needs to talk to some one.

Wildekarrde · Post by **Wildekarrde** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 9:24 am

exactly 13 days before my fiance left me after 3 years...

Catlegend · Post by **Catlegend** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 11:49 am

which is TOTAL bullshit.

Wildekarrde · Post by **Wildekarrde** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 12:54 pm

more bullshit than ever... have you even heard the new developments? She's living with someone else already...

Catlegend · Post by **Catlegend** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 1:29 pm

WOW. that really is...

BULLSHIT!

Cerberus · Post by **Cerberus** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 1:42 pm

...my story got worse a few weeks ago...

When I posted this someone I was very close with cut off all comunication with me...I got back to mailing with her at the end of the summer holidays...

for three months contact was meager to say the least but at least we had contact again...few weeks ago I asked If I could come by just for a friendly chat...she said she had stuff to do and was very busy due to school week later asked again and week later again...she constantly avoided me so I asked her about that and she mailed back saying that my parents insinuated the two of us had sex which didn't go well with her...as far as I know that never happenednot the sex nor the fact that my parents talked bout anything of the like...and that the last few weeks she felt I was giving her too much attention...this is true though I hadn't noticed it untill she said so to me in the mail...and due to that we're finished as friends...

I hate my life...

Wildekarrde · Post by **Wildekarrde** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 1:50 pm

I had been with the same person for three years, fell in love... head over heals stupid in love... I asked her to marry me at the end of march, she said "Of course!" I cried for joy for the first time in my entire life. Then, 5 months later (august 9th) she says "I love you and care for you, but I never fell in love with you. I need that feeling." She walked away. Two weeks later she took a trip to Ireland. When she got back she told me she was with someone else, (for the record this is approximately 3 weeks later at this point) I asked about who it was and if I knew him... she said I didn't know him... and then told me his name... I recognized it, it was her boyfriend from highschool (15 years previously) it has now been 2 months since then, she had told me that she wasn't ready to have me move in because of various reasons, he now lives at her house and I found out recently that they started going out approximately a week after her and I broke up... My heart still belongs to someone whom I was simply a place holder for... yeah, I think I know a little something about the whole life sucking thing...

Cerberus · Post by **Cerberus** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 2:20 pm

I guess you got it worse than me huh...

Wildekarrde · Post by **Wildekarrde** » Tue Oct 17, 2006 2:24 pm

Meh, I just know how it feels to lose someone

I'm recovering... faster than most people expected... its just nice to let all that out

Voyd · Post by **Voyd** » Wed Oct 18, 2006 12:12 am

this is way to depressing a thread.

*throws cake around with edible glitter*

Cerberus · Post by **Cerberus** » Wed Oct 18, 2006 1:24 am

depressing threads need to happen evry now and then...

*eats cake*

why aren't you on msn anymore? or are you only on when I'm off...

Voyd · Post by **Voyd** » Thu Oct 19, 2006 6:51 am

my email got hacked

I'll grab your email off snowy when I'm next online, neh? ^^