While I completely agree with your sentiments about girls picking bad boys, this is exactly why I don't read gossip columns. It's a place where people pretend to know celebrities based on just a few paragraphs of second-hand story, event presented in a cliffnotes version. Not to mention you've never had a chance to talk to actual people, know a bit more about them. For all you know, the actual event could be completely the oposite from what media told. Well for all you know it could be just a publicity stunt.Prettysenshi wrote:<rant>
omg what the fuck? I have a friend who thinks that Chris Brown beating up Rihanna and leaving her on the side of the road in the middle of the night is not a big deal? Why? Because he didn't beat her to an inch of her life...like what the fuck? OMG that's not the worst of it. I said that Chris Brown shouldn't get a pass for being an abuser just because he's famous and young and "Run It" is still my jam. That's just stupid and honestly makes me sick. My friend thinks that "it's not that serious."
What the fuck is wrong with women? It's like some women out there want assholes. Its ridiculous. Here are all these nice men who wouldn't beat you up, wouldn't talk down to you, won't cheat or lie, and make you feel special, and there are so many girls who just write them off because they're 5'7, don't have nice abs or arms, don't make over 50k a year and read comics or some shit. God forbid that men judge girls on looks alone. How shallow right?? but ALL of my friends are disgustingly shallow, writing off at least 3 guys just this weekend alone because he was under 5'9. THERE WAS NO OTHER REASON people.
If my dumbass boy obsessed, crazy facebook stalking, posessive, obsessive, attention seeking, dramatic bff says that she likes assholes one more fucking time, after I was there for her over a year while her not really boyfriend treated her like shit and she sobbed daily and broke religious rules and all that crap, i'm gonna go apeshit.
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I also think it's no big deal, but because it's their personal thing and none of my concern. If I had some drama in my life, I wouldn't want people who I've never met in my life discussiong details of that drama on internet and elsewhere.
Anyways, from my experience, the reason why girls prefere bad boys is because girls like self-confidence. Bad boys have it, nice guys who read comics and whatnot don't have it. I knew a dozen of guys who kept complaining how no girl is interested in them, while barely even having tried to approach to one, and even then doing it in such awkward, apologuetic way, that they project zero masculinity. Not to mention bad posture, slouching, I think that more girls are put off by that than by height or lack of body-builder's forearms.














